Monday, May 23, 2016

May - Wrapping Up the School Year

So Many Projects!! The last month of school just about did us in, especially Nathan.


His first assignment was to re-purpose a household item. He decided to take an old shirt and turn it into an apron. The sewing machine was a bit intimidating at first but soon he had the pedal going at a steady pace. At school the next day all the items were set up and judges came to give awards.

Nathan won first place which earned him a new water bottle.


The boys and I decorated Mrs. Garner's door for teacher appreciation week. She has been an amazing teacher for Nathan this year!




Nathan was chosen with three other kids from his 4th grade class to participate in the district spelling bee. He studied and studied his four pages of words and was confident right up to the point of going on stage.


Then stage fright caught him a little. Luckily, he was there with his good friend Peyton and the two of them were able to enjoy the even and laugh at their silly mistakes.

The most time consuming project was Nathan's Idaho History report. We had to go to the sand dunes to take pictures and collect sand. He spent time researching and typing a report and then had to practice his oral report that would be done at their class rendezvous in front of all the fourth grade parents. In spite of the wind, his presentation went very well.


Shortly after the project was finished we hiked the Menan Butte and from the top Nathan hollered out, "hey, it's my sand dunes".

Though Hyrum didn't have projects to do, he had lines to memorize as well as knowing when to say his lines. Not a small feat for this second grader. His class wrote a play and practiced for nearly a month in preparation for their final performance.


What an adorable wolf! He was not big or bad, just clever and witty.

In the middle of all the end-of-school-year chaos, I took a quick trip to Colorado with my mom, Kara, Kate, and Brooklyn to go to Audi's baby shower. John and Audi were flying to Colorado from Georgia and we knew it might be the only time we see them for a while. Audi's family is always so welcoming and I adore both John and Audi!


The traveling was great too. I am blessed with a fun mom and witty, wonderful sisters and creative Brooklyn keeps us all young and entertained.

Hallelujah!! We made it through another school year.
Bring on the summer.


Thursday, April 28, 2016

April


Chef Hyrum pulled an April Fools prank on every one of us.


He carefully made some marshmallow brown E's and had us all look in the oven to see his dessert.
Tricky boy . . . now we are all craving brownies!!



He then followed (loosely) a recipe from his new cookbook and made a delicious (really it was!) yogurt dessert with strawberry yogurt, crushed Oreos, marshmallows and a slight drizzle of caramel.


We also had some delicious dessert per Nathan's birthday requests.
Oreo Pizza and Fruit Pizza

Happy 10th Birthday, Big Boy!


While Bret's family was in town for spring break and Derek was home for General Conference, we gathered at our house for Kailee Jo's baby blessing.


A member of the bishopric came to preside and act as witness while we filled our living room with a whole lot of people who love this new baby girl.  Bret gave her a beautiful, tender blessing.

Kailee Jo
First child for Bret and Erika
First grandchild for Ron and Jill
First grandchild for LeRoy and Kimberly



Happy Easter!

The boys were a little too helpful when Daymia was making an Easter wreath for her front door.
Nathan left; Hyrum right


I woke one morning to find Justin sound asleep in front of the fire.


He'd had a rough night and needed a little extra warmth from the fire. By the time the sun was coming in through the windows he and Charlie were cuddled up on the couch soaking up the warmth of the sun.


Now that the weather is warming up the boys have been begging to walk the 2 miles to church.
They also walked home from church along with half of the neighborhood kids.
They looked like mini missionaries heading off into the field.

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Hyrum's Birthday and Baptism


With his new-found Minecraft love we put together a Minecraft dinner.



His Minecraft cake met our sweet tooth needs and he was very excited about his TNT candles, especially when the surviving two candles indicated his girlfriend count.



I questioned if a personalized chef hat and apron were a phase long gone but when he opened them and immediately put them on I knew the Junior Cookbook would also be a hit. With a sword from Nathan he was all set for chopping and baking and he couldn't wait to start.



I couldn't hold back my emotions when I saw my baby nervous and excited for his baptism. I've noticed how each child reacts differently to the occasion with Nathan's baptism in my most recent memory. Nathan couldn't quit smiling and bouncing his feet and was overly excited. Hyrum was deep in thought and emotional. When I asked if he was afraid or if he didn't want to be baptized he immediately expressed that he wasn't afraid and very much wanted to be baptized. "Mom, I'm just close to Jesus and I want to do what's right."


It was just the four of us at the church for about 30 minutes and it was just the time we needed to really feel and take in the experience before everyone else came. He was a tad concerned about immersion and was afraid that his feet would pop up but after a couple of practice runs in the hallway he was sure he could do it. And, he did. After he changed into dry clothes and was confirmed to receive the Holy Ghost, he climbed into my lap giving me a wink and a hug.

Later that night as I tucked Nathan and Hyrum into bed we briefly talked about being clean at baptism and how repentance and the sacrament help us to remain clean after we make mistakes. Hyrum informed me that he had already "prayed for forgiveness because I was arguing with Nathan". My children teach me so much and I am proud to see the faithful young man that Hyrum desires to be.


While waiting for LeRoy and Hyrum to get changed, we all gawked at 2 week old Kailee.

Nathan was so proud to hold her and felt he even got a smile out of her.


After the baptism, we all went to Dairy Queen where Nathan mixed his own "dirty" soda.

His face said it all.


Friday, March 18, 2016

March


Charlie and I put on our festive green for St. Patrick's Day.
I had puffy, sick eyes and a sore, red nose from the flu so I didn't want my picture taken but Derek wanted to see my shirt. We compromised.


While the boys were in school I set up an outdoor treasure hunt for them beginning with a balloon and the first clue tied to our mailbox where the bus drops them off.




Our school district was running a "Start With Hello" campaign so on a whim I made up enough sugar cookies for each of the boys classes and to take to the Madison Cares crew at the district office. It seemed simple enough to use the green Hello stickers that were flooding the schools as my pattern. The cramp in my hand from writing Hello on 48 cookies  was worth the surprise and the boys were happy to share with their classes.




I started a new tradition which required a new cookie jar (only because I didn't like the look of the half empty, huge Rubbermaid tub sitting on my counter). I love having the classy, white jar with all my kids (and pets) names on it. Cookie Friday was a hit. But, a full cookie jar was so tempting and the boys and I started eating too many cookies so we switched it to Cookie Sunday. This way we have everyone home to share in the goods.



Settling into my new role of Grandma is Pure Heaven ♥




My boys are very behind on the Minecraft hobby and have only played it at their cousins' houses so when Justin got it for them they were constantly begging to play. The video games only on Saturday rule was near torture for them and I knew on Friday night that it could possibly lead to drama if I didn't have a way to get chores done before they played. So, the Minecraft Ticket was created. It worked so well that having a chore ticket became a weekly thing.




Justin and his cheer team competed in seven cheer competitions around Idaho. By the time districts came around they were all a bit tired of their routines but they did wonderful and were able to go to state competition in Boise. They won a few awards, came home after the two day competition and suddenly cheer was done.


Or, they thought cheer was over until the boy's basketball team made it to state basketball in Boise. They made their second trip to Boise in two weeks and cheered there. We watched it live online and were irrationally giddy when we saw him beyond the hoop.

The day after they got home from state I received this email from the head cheer coach's mother-in-law who happens to live in our neighborhood. I love it when others get to see the great person that he is!

Hi Kimberly,
We had so much fun watching the games and cheer squad at state this past weekend.  I just wanted you to know that we think Justin is such a great young man!  You may have heard Christina had some problems with some of the cheerleaders breaking rules and sneaking out, etc.  Christina had to call the parents and explain what was up, and why they would not be cheering Sat evening or why they had to sit a quarter out.  Apparently there were some parents who did not take the information kindly, and proceeded to berate Christina about it.  

Christina read us a couple of texts that Justin sent to her to help her feel better, to know they (he and Kendall?) supported her, had her back and respected her for making some tough decisions.  (Maybe he will read them to you.)  That helped her so much in a time of need!  She says they are always so helpful, by carrying the big pom bags, opening doors, and being true gentlemen, and like I say, they had her back, and it meant so much!
Thanks for raising such a great young man.  Know that Byron really enjoys him in the Priest's Quorum.

Diann  


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LeRoy was struggling with a terrible cough the day that Kailee was born (that's why he wore a mask at the hospital) and three days later Hyrum and I were showing similar signs. LeRoy went to the doctor and tested positive for Flu B. He hadn't been around Kara, Kate and Kate's kids so we hoped that they wouldn't catch it.

However, Hyrum and I ended up at the doctor two days after they left and both also tested positive. We started meds and Hyrum improved but a few days later my cough had progressed to such a rough state that it felt like my chest was ripping apart. After another trip to the doctor, I was diagnosed with pleuricy and given even more meds and breathing treatments. When three days passed and I had no relief, I sat in tears, holding my chest and taking extremely shallow breaths to avoid coughing. While reading the scriptures that morning I read in D&C 59.  " . . . and the herb, and the good things which come of the earth, yea, all things which come of the earth, in the season thereof, are made for the benefit and the use of man, to strengthen the body and to enliven the soul."

I wondered why I had not turned to the herbs that God has provided to deal with this particular sickness when it's my usual nature to go to herbs before doctors, and it had been mentioned in a priesthood blessing that LeRoy had given me.  I immediately called my trusted herbalist and he set me up with three herbal combinations and I quit taking the prescriptions. Within two days my cough was so much better and within a couple more days it was nearly clear and all the body aches and fevers were gone. The natural recovery was much faster and easier than the 21-28 days that the doctors had told me to expect.

The hardest part about the sickness was the timing. Kailee was only a few days old; Erika was a new mom; I was laying in bed. Every bit of me wanted to be Erika's support and to cuddle new baby Kailee but I didn't dare be near them for fear of getting them sick. Erika did so well adjusting to motherhood and sent me lots of pictures. Once the sickness was gone, I was so delighted to spend time catching up with my girls!

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Meeting Kailee Jo

Everyone was excited to meet Kailee!


On the day Kailee was born, Hyrum wrote letters during school. I didn't realize that it was such a part of his thought process throughout the day or that he was so aware of his new role as an uncle.



Grandma and Grandpa Fullmer came to Rexburg and waited anxiously through the night for news of their first great-grandchild. They were thrilled to meet her the next morning.


This moment waited six and a half decades to happen and includes four generations of love and motherhood.

After a short morning break for a nap, the afternoon was a constant flow of visitors. When I asked Erika if she needed rest she responded in tired fondness for her baby girl, "I just want to show her off to everyone!"



Three days later, Kate and Kara came on their only unscheduled weekend knowing that Kailee would be over a month old before they would see her if they didn't make the quick trip now.




Derek met her the following weekend when he came for General Conference.


Kailee has had more snuggles and love than a girl could wish for. My tough young men melt into protective uncles with adoration and awe in their actions and voices.


Tuesday, March 15, 2016

Kailee Jo


Bret and Erika tried to fill in the long, wishful days of that last month of pregnancy with a fun maternity photo shoot. Daymia took some really great photos.

Kailee spent another month growing and growing.

Erika's facebook post: We found out we were expecting when I was 3 weeks and 5 days along. Now we only have 3 weeks and 5 days left! Starting to feel like a whale but it's well worth it. We can't wait to meet Kailee Jo!!

Erika continued to distract herself by making and selling car seat blanket inserts. She made enough money to buy her first sewing machine for many projects to come.



Those final days for Erika were painful, sleep deprived, tough, sweats and long bath days but she continued to wait patiently for her baby girl to arrive.



The morning of March 15, 2016 was very exciting!


Erika's Facebook post: This is us. Heading to the hospital. TO HAVE A BABY!!!!!!

I anxiously kept my phone close for text updates throughout the whole day. I sent encouragement, prayed, found myself holding my breath, prayed, cried, reminisced about the day Erika was born, prayed.

Pitocin
Contractions 20 seconds apart lasting 1 minute or longer
Painful hours passing
No progress
Epidural
Relaxing for both Erika and Bret
Boring hours passing
Dilating
Steady contractions

Then this text came in:

After a few follow-up texts, with the last one from her at 9:51 saying, "time to push, come now". I was immediately out the door trying so very hard not to speed down main street (or cry more anxious, excited tears) as I hurried as fast as I dared to the hospital. The next hour was intense! Kailee's heartbeat started dropping again like it did before the epidural. They started switching Erika from side to side during pushes, increased her oxygen, and increased the pitocin to encourage more frequent contractions to hopefully get Kailee here faster.  I saw Erika set aside every bit of her own pain in a focused determination doing everything in her power to do what was best for her baby girl.  

Erika was a hero! Bret was a champ!

In the last 15 hours I have watched my determined Erika Jo courageously push through labor and delivery to reach her goal, "I just want to hold my baby girl". I witnessed pure unconditional love as she comforted, encouraged, and praised her sweet Kailee Jo during the minutes and hours following birth, setting aside her own pain, discomfort and exhaustion as the divine mantle of motherhood encompassed her. Erika Jo, you are spectacular!

♥ Welcome to the world baby girl ♥

Kailee Jo meeting her mommy.


Admiring parents already in love.


While Erika and Kailee figured out nursing and had snuggle time, Bret fell into a deep sleep for a quick nap. He had been up for 21 hours at this point and was completely worn out.



Then Bret had one on one time for her first bath and they settled in for daddy snuggles while Erika had a few minutes of rest.

After a room transfer at 1:15 a.m. the Hellbusch family settled in for their first night together and I went home to relive the entire beautiful experience in my dreams.

Kailee Jo Hellbusch
March 15, 2016
11:33 p.m.
7lb 4oz
19.5" long